Wa aatun nisaaa'a sadu qaatihinna nihlah; fa in tibna lakum 'an shai'im minhu nafsan fakuloohu hanee'am mareee'aa
And give the women [upon marriage] their [bridal] gifts graciously. But if they give up willingly to you anything of it, then take it in satisfaction and ease.
1 Mufti Taqi Usmani
Give women their dower in good cheer. Then, if they forego some of it, of their own will, you may have it as pleasant and joyful.