لَاا يَنْهَاكُمُ اللَّهُ عَنِ الَّذِينَ لَمْ يُقَاتِلُوكُمْ فِي الدِّينِ وَلَمْ يُخْرِجُوكُم مِّن دِيَارِكُمْ
Allah does not forbid you with those who fought not against you on account of religion nor drove you out of your homes,
means, those who did not have a role in your expulsion. Therefore, Allah does not forbid you from being kind to the disbelievers who do not fight you because of the religion, such as women and weak disbelievers,
أَن تَبَرُّوهُمْ
to deal kindly, (to be gentle with them),
وَتُقْسِطُوا إِلَيْهِمْ
and justly with those, (to be fair with them),
إِنَّ اللَّهَ يُحِبُّ الْمُقْسِطِينَ
Verily, Allah loves those who deal with equity.
Imam Ahmad recorded that Asma' bint Abu Bakr said,
"My mother, who was an idolatress at the time, came to me during the Treaty of Peace, the Prophet conducted with the Quraysh. I came to the Prophet and said, `O Allah's Messenger! My mother came visiting, desiring something from me, should I treat her with good relations'
The Prophet said,
نَعَمْ صِلِي أُمَّك
Yes. Keep good relation with your mother."
The Two Sahihs recorded this Hadith.
Imam Ahmad recorded that Abdullah bin Zubayr said,
"Qutaylah came visiting her daughter, Asma' bint Abi Bakr, with some gifts, such as Dibab, cheese and clarified (cooking) butter, and she was an idolatress at that time. Asma' refused to accept her mother's gifts and did not let her enter her house. A'ishah asked the Prophet about his verdict and Allah sent down the Ayah,
لَاا يَنْهَاكُمُ اللَّهُ عَنِ الَّذِينَ لَمْ يُقَاتِلُوكُمْ فِي الدِّينِ
Allah does not forbid you with those who fought not against you on account of religion until the end of the Ayah.
Allah's Messenger ordered Asma' to accept her mother's gifts and to let her enter her house."
Allah's statement,
إِنَّ اللَّهَ يُحِبُّ الْمُقْسِطِينَ
(Allah loves those who deal with equity), was duly explained in the Tafsir of Surah Al-Hujurat.
We also mentioned the authentic Hadith,
الْمُقْسِطُونَ عَلى مَنَابِرَ مِنْ نُورٍ عَنْ يَمِينِ الْعَرْشِ الَّذِينَ يَعْدِلُونَ فِي حُكْمِهِمْ وَأَهَالِيهِمْ وَمَا وَلُوا
The just, who are fair in their decisions, families and those under their authority, will be on podiums made of light, to the right of the Throne.
The Prohibition of being Kind towards Combatant Disbelievers
Allah's statement